Wednesday, October 4, 2017

mid-week weekend recap


We had the perfect weekend. The weather was perfect and both Eric & I were off of work all weekend. (it is a rare occurrence for him to have a Saturday off) Truth be told, I probably enjoyed him being off more than he did. He likes his mid-week Wednesday off, it is his 'chill' time. We got to spend some time outside and both Eva and Emma enjoyed being outside and playing. Eric cleaned up this old car for Eva and we all had a turn at pushing her around in it. She loved it! Eric was even a champ and got the chainsaw out and took care of two small trees for me. One was blown over in a recent hurricane and the other was obstructing our view at the end of the driveway. best. husband.ever.

oh my goodness, that hand on the wheel!! 
Emma is such a sweet older cousin

Sadly, our weekend ended with a stomach virus. It hit the whole house-starting late Sunday (after we went to bed). Emma even ended up with it and spread it around her house. yikes! It was a rough couple of days but now our house is feeling better and I'm already counting down to this weekend.

xo-M
"Family is not an important thing, it's everything."- Michael J. Fox 

Sunday, October 1, 2017

October.

October.
pumpkins. 
cider. 
crisp air.
mums.
haunted houses.
leaves
hoodies.
forget pumpkin spice, give me salted caramel mocha

Living in the south, the window for a true feeling of fall is limited. Early in the morning or late at night feels like fall while the rest of the day tends to get pretty warm. October did start off on a good note-the air felt AMAZING this morning when I opened the front door. For now I have the front door open and am loving being able to do so. On days like today I dream of having a large front porch with a rocking chair to sip my coffee while I watch Eva play in the yard. It is one of the goals that I hope to bring to fruition.  

last fall in Savannah. 27 weeks pregnant. 
I have high hopes for the fall- it is the first one with a daughter and I plan on making it magical. 

xo-M

"life starts all over again when it gets crisp in the fall"- F. Scott Fitzgerald

Saturday, September 30, 2017

2.5 years later

The last time I sat down and wrote a blog post (aside from last week) was 2 1/2 years ago. wowzah! So many things have happened in those 2.5 years. We breezed through our first & second year of marriage, my best friend moved away (and got married), Eric & I moved back to Salem. 

& then the biggest and the best thing happened...

  meet miss Eva Alexandria.
we HAD to try her Halloween costume early. she is so.stinkin.cute.

The love and fulfillment that Eva brings to our life cannot be put into words. She just turned 8 months old. 8 MONTHS. How did that happen? She is the best thing we ever did.

I'm still finding the balance of baby + pre-baby lifestyle but more on that later.

xo-M

"though she be but little, she is fierce"- Shakespeare

Wednesday, September 20, 2017

The return.


Hello blog world, it is me. (again). I am going to attempt to blog again. It feels therapeutic and I feel like it is the right time in my life to give it a go again.

One of the reasons that I want to blog is because I always feel guarded about things that I share on Facebook. Like everyone else, my personal Facebook is filled with extended family, co-workers, and various acquaintances. (and of course my close friends). In a perfect world, I would just take the advice to delete people that I don't want 'to be friends with' and feel free to post whatever I want. But life is complicated and it isn't that easy...so I remain guarded.


 Blogging is an avenue for me to be able to fully and truly express myself. I control who I share this blog with. Yes, I know that this is the internet and anyone could find this if they looked hard enough- but what are the odds that an old co-worker that I haven't seen in two years or that distant cousin in Washington stumbling across my corner of the internet? (and if they do, kudos to you! and welcome to my blog!)

so here is to the adventures, the ups, the downs, and everything inbetween.

xo-Melly

"Be who you were created to be and you will set the world on fire." -St.Catherine of Siena

Saturday, May 30, 2015

Bucket List

After we got married, Eric & I started a bucket list. We have a notebook that we write things in that we want to do and it is our dream to work on our bucket-list over the course of our marriage. We will be adding to the list as time goes by and crossing out what we have accomplished. 


As an adult you begin to realize that a new day is not promised to you and that in any given moment it can be taken away. Life is too precious and too short to not enjoy it. Our list contains dreams both big and small. Each year our goal is to cross off at least one thing on the list. As of right now, we are set up to cross off two things this year. The first will be going to see Ed Sheeran in concert this fall. The second is still a work in progress and I promise to share more on that later.

xo-M

"A successful life is one that is that is lived through understanding and pursuing one's own path, not chasing after the dreams of others."
-Chin-Ning Chu



Sunday, May 24, 2015

Sunday Sounds.


Mary Jane's Last Dance- Tom Petty & The Heartbreakers

Tom Petty makes my soul happy. This one makes it in my top 5 Tom Petty songs.I remember the days when I was young and naive-only thinking this was a sort of love song to a girl named Mary Jane. 



Wish You Were Here- Incubus

I went through a brief,obsessive phase with Incubus as a teenager. Brandon Boyd still gives me the feels. 

xo-M

"Music is the strongest form of  magic."
-Marilyn Manson 

Saturday, May 23, 2015

Sam the Grad.

Happy graduation day Sam! 


Eric & I are happy to share the excitement of seeing you graduate and we are proud of you. You are talented, smart, and have a beautiful soul. We love you and know that you are going to rock at whatever you decide to do in the future. Always believe in yourself and know that you can do anything that you want to.

xo-E&M


"You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose."
-Dr.Seuss

Friday, May 22, 2015

Photo adventure

Earlier this week we drove out to the rail-yard (is that what it is called?) for a photo adventure. The setting itself was pretty magical but I wasn't really feeling it that day. I took a few pics but wasn't in the full mood for a photo adventure. I think the combination of feeling exhausted and the humid, summer heat that Georgia has to offer got the best of me. We also ventured out a tad too early and I was wearing blue jeans and got really hot and never was able to cool off. mood killer. I did enjoy walking around and taking in the scenery.

 [Eric is my favorite person to photograph]
 [my new favorite pic of E]

[Rosa rockin' the cutest little ponytail there ever was]

xo-M

"The art of being happy lies in the power of extracting happiness from common things."
-Henry Ward Beecher

Thursday, May 21, 2015

TBT


This Thursday, I am throwing back to bangs & short black hair. I miss you bangs-maybe we will meet again one day.
xo-M

"Take care of all of your memories. For you cannot relive them."
-Bob Dylan 

Wednesday, May 20, 2015

Tuesday, May 19, 2015

Life is Strange

Episode 3 of Life is Strange is out today!

It is my favorite game in a long time. [it is a choice and consequence game that you can rewind time to affect the past/present] If you don't hear from me today...know that I am alive... just playing a game. 

xo-M

"There are plenty of skills that I've learned from playing video games. It's more interactive than watching TV, because there are problems to solve as you are using your brain."
-Shaun White

Monday, May 18, 2015

Slide the City: Columbus, Ga

Slide the City is a pretty cool concept- A 1,000 foot water slip n' slide made on a street in the city. You can pay to slide once, pay more to slide three times or buy an all day pass to slide as many times as you want. I did find out that they work with the city to find the best location for this slide- for both sliding down the hill and water flow for this. Again, this is a cool concept but it went down as an epic fail for Slide the City and Columbus, Ga.



Several weeks ago my friend Brandi and I decided to volunteer this event. We had on and off discussed getting involved in things and volunteering. Both of us decided this would be a good place to start. We were so very wrong. Our scheduled volunteer shift was 2pm-7pm. Once all of the volunteers for our shift arrived, we had a very brief pow-wow and were taken to our spot. We were excited and thought that we had scored the best possible volunteer spot of the day- the bottom of the slide. Our job was to slow down sliders and to keep them out of the bottom of the slide (which EVERYONE wanted to go in] because it had a water pump that filtered the water and pumped it back up to the top of the slide.

[This was before the madness ensued]

I should mention that the event began earlier that day and up until around 2:45 or 3 the water pressure was not enough to actually slide down the slide because there was not water down the entire slide. I am sure you can imagine that the people who paid for this experience were upset. Also, all day only two of the three lanes were open for sliding. The wait time for the slide was extra long due to the combination of one lane being closed and the inability to actually 'slide the city'. After the water pressure picked up people were actually able to slide down. The problem here is that it was just two girls against the city of Columbus. Most people did actually listen and slow down/stop before hitting the end with the water pump. We managed to grab many of those who didn't slow down before they hit the end- grabbing their tubes/legs/hands/whatever we could grab to make them stop. If this were a sports event- we would be the goalies. The next problem was having that group of a**holes who didn't listen. The ones who purposely slide in the end or go in there anyway after we had stopped them. I was knocked down a few times, but poor Brandi was completely wiped out by people several times. Frustration was building. Not to mention the super creepy old man who had a child's pool noodle/water gun squirting young, attractive women with water. [and who had been asked/told to stop many, many times] Even after being told to stop he remained at the bottom of the slide, sitting on the side-creeping away. Brandi even went so far as to tell one of the people 'in charge' and they did nothing.

We became fed up with the few people that simply would not listen and the lack of help/assistance from the coordinators and decided to leave around 5pm. Feeling that we were doing the right the thing, we went out of our way to find one of the people 'in charge' to tell them why we were leaving and that there was now no one working the bottom of the slide. She didn't even care why we had left or even care that we did leave. Then  she had the audacity to ask if we could help clean up and pack up the volunteer tent/supplies. After picking our jaws up off of the floor we just said no and left.

The thing I am going to take away from this is that this is one experience and I refuse to let it ruin my stance on volunteering. You get out of the world what you put in. Don't let a bad experience ruin your good nature.
xo-M

"A bad system will beat a good person every time."
-W.Edwards Deming

Sunday, May 17, 2015

Sunday Sounds

Oh, Honey- Sugar, You. 
A song for anyone who struggles with self confidence and knows the feeling of being uncomfortable in your own skin. It is a song of loving someone who doesn't love themselves. My wish for you all is to love yourself as you are and know that you are capable of love and being loved.


Panic! At The Disco- Hallelujah
I am not ashamed to admit that I love this band and am super stoked for new music. Such an infectious voice- how can you know like them?

xo-M

"It would be glamorous to be reincarnated as a great big ring on Liz Taylor's finger."
-Andy Warhol

Sunday, May 10, 2015

Sunday Sounds

With my return to the blog, I decided to continue Sunday Sounds. [with just a few changes] Previously, I always tried to post five songs. This go round I'll just be going with the flow.



Eric & I waited for what seemed like forever for Love Story to be released. This Sunday Sounds is the entire album. It is not often I love every.single.song. on an album but Yelawolf did not disappoint. The obvious favorite [if you know me at all] is Till It's Gone- it is just infectious in the best way. My other favorites are Whiskey In A Bottle, Have A Great Flight, and Best Friend.


xo-M


"Yeah, I have animosity, I have a chip on my shoulder. But I love, too."
-Yelawolf

Tuesday, May 5, 2015

I miss you.

oh, internet.


xo-M

Hello!

I'm back!
[I can never stay away from blogging for long]

So, here is a random jumble of what is going on with me lately...

I update the look of the blog a bit. I like it....but I am a tad biased. 

The spring is such an inspiring time for me. I thrive on cool summer nights mixed with whatever music I find myself in the mood for at the time. This week I have been listening to a lot of Brand New and Taking Back Sunday. It is oddly comforting to be just as in love with these bands as I was years ago. 

I've been missing Tennessee lately.
TN will forever serve as my home away from home. 
[November 2014- smokey mountain national park]

In other semi-interesting news, I cleaned up my facebook. I went from 300+ friends down to a solid 186. I choose to hit the unfriend button on people that I do not interact with. It is highly liberating to decide you want to share everything with a select few. [ironic statement seeing as how I have no problem sharing my stories with anyone on this blog] 

I started staying up late again and sleeping in [well, sleeping in when I can]. Creativity flows better on the computer more freely at 1am. Long live coffe, youtube, and blogging! 

xo-M 

"In Tennessee where I grew up, there were animals, farms, wagons, mules."
-Tina Turner

Sunday, April 5, 2015

Sunday Sounds.

Going to make it short and sweet today. 

God is love.
Happy Easter.


xo-M

"You pray for rain, you gotta deal with the mud too. That's a part of it."
-Denzel Washington

Thursday, April 2, 2015

TBT

Today's throwback is a favorite of mine. I dug deep into an 'instagram' file on my computer to find these! A day in Atlanta with the bestie. We went to ICE ATL and then on a photo spree. 



 [I could go for some IKEA about now]

 [This tree bench was magial]




 [we stopped at UO and got disposable cameras. confession: I never developed mine]

 [sadly, this has since been covered up with something less memorable on it now]

[taking a pic of a ladybug]

Dear Bestie, if you read this we are overdue for an ATL adventure ;)

xo-M

"Friendship is the only cement that will ever hold the world together."
-Woodrow Wilson

Sunday, March 29, 2015

Sunday Sounds

Sorry- Meg Myers
I am such a fan of this chick. So far, I have loved everything I have heard.

Glass & Patron- FKA twigs

I don't think this song is supposed to be as funny as I find it. "There's that bike that I forgot that I possessed....I think something's tellin me to ride that 2 speed" 




Hanson is my lifelong musical love. I am not ashamed to admit that musically, I have loved Hanson the longest. 19 years and counting!

xo-M

"I have found that if you love life, life will love you  back."
-Arthur Rubinstein

Thursday, March 26, 2015

Thursday


Thursday.
  • I walked to work this morning. (It literally takes me six minutes to walk from my apartment to work) Surprisingly, I have lived here over a year and have only walked to work a handful of times. I rather enjoy getting out and am trying to make it a point to take advantage of the nice weather while it lasts. 
  • 64 oz of water. I drank this today. I don't even know if this is what is considered the ideal amount of water but I drank it! I happen to love water but have found myself in the routine of grabbing a soda instead. Ah, the uphill struggle in my battle against soda. 
  • I jammed out to Alabama Shakes . like hardcore, danced my heart out in the living room all alone jammed out. I can still remember the first time I heard them several years ago. I had to know who it was because it was so different & so rad. So excited for the new album!
  • I ate pizza rolls for dinner. because I am an adult and I can do that. 
Sorry for the lack of picture taking today. To be honest, I just wasn't in the mood. I plan on doing better at documenting in the future...

xo-M

"If you cannot do great things, do small things in a great way"
Napoleon Hill